Eventually, a beloved pet becomes very old, seriously ill, or badly injured to the point that his or her end is near, and it may be time to make some very difficult decisions. This isn’t an easy subject for most animal lovers, but I’ve had to tackle it several times, unfortunately. The first time was the worst because I just didn’t know what to do or what was right for me.
If you’re fortunate, you may have some time to think and make plans concerning what to do with your pet’s body. If your pet passes on suddenly, though, and if this is your first experience with the death of a pet, you might not know which direction to turn.
It’s a good idea to make decisions long before you need to so you’re prepared. It’s also important to include every member of the family in discussions, to allow for differences of opinion if there are any, and to remember that it may take some time to come to a decision that everyone can agree upon. Making sure everyone is informed about the options is a good place to start.
Depending on individual beliefs, preferences, or past experiences, there are three main options.
Some people prefer to let their veterinarian deal with their pet’s body after his or her passing. For many of us, the life of the beloved pet is what was important, and the pet’s physical body has little meaning after death. Check with your vet on his or her policies, practices, and fees, if any.
Burial, whether at home or at a pet cemetery, is another popular option. Some people have always buried a family pet in their backyard, if they have one. This is common, especially for small pets such as cats, birds, hamsters, and the like. However, it’s illegal in many areas, and of course it’s impossible if you don’t own a home with a yard. It can also be a lot of work since the animal must be buried at least two-three feet deep or more. This can be impractical, especially in the case of a large dog or a horse.
Many people choose to inter their pet’s body at a special pet cemetery. Your veterinarian may know of several or your local humane societies and shelters may refer you.
Cremation is another option that has become very popular in recent years. It’s not as costly as you might think, and many crematoriums provide a special area where you can have a service for your pet or have time alone to say good-bye. You can choose a private cremation, which means your pet is cremated alone and you can take the ashes with you. Or your pet is cremated with other pets, and ashes are combined. Pet crematoriums typically offer a wide array of urns and boxes. Your vet’s office may have information available, and they may even coordinate all the services for you.
Keep in mind that there is no right or wrong when making this very personal decision. It’s even possible that you may change your mind several times before finally knowing what feels right for you. If you’re unsure, it can be helpful to do some reading and talk with friends or family members who understand. In the end, the most important thing to remember is how much love, joy, fun, and happiness you and your beloved pet shared together.
For additional reading on this subject, check out The Final Farewell and Final Care of Your Pet’s Body
© Leah McClellan
